How to write your wedding speech as the bride
More brides are giving speeches than ever — and they're often the highlight of the day. You don't need to follow the groom's formula. Thank the people who matter, say something true about the person you just married, and enjoy the moment.
What to include
- Thank-yous, grouped rather than listed: parents, the wedding party, everyone who travelled.
- A moment about your parents — one specific thing they gave you.
- Your new spouse — how you met, the moment you knew, or a small thing they do that nobody else sees.
- A toast — to your guests, to your spouse, or to the night ahead.
Joint speech or separate?
If you and your partner both speak, split the work: one of you handles thank-yous, the other tells the story. Or give a joint speech and alternate paragraphs — it's charming if rehearsed.
Length
Two to four minutes. Your guests will happily listen, but the shorter speech is always the one people quote.
Example opening
Hi everyone! I promised myself I wouldn't cry, so if I do, please pretend it's the champagne. First, thank you all for being here — some of you crossed oceans, and some of you crossed the M25, which I know is the harder journey…
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Write my speechFrequently asked questions
When does the bride give her speech?
Usually after the groom, or alongside the groom in a joint speech. Agree the order with your MC or planner.
Do I need to thank everyone by name?
No. Thank groups, then name only the few people who did something extraordinary.